REUNITED!!!! xxxxxx

Make you smile until i'm home

I really really miss you but I cannot wait to be back in your arms very very soon xxxx

I really miss you 

I'm Thinking of You

I know you're worried about today but you'll be fine.

I wouldn't let anything happen to you.

Xx

We may have our fights and I may get upset and frustrated and you may feel useless. However no other man alive can make me smile like you do and you chose the day when I needed it the most, on my tip of my emotional breakdown, when China became all too much for me, to send me the most wonderful bunch of sunflowers and Lily's in Luxury purple wrapping.

You're my rock xxxx

This week I really want to go home. I miss you and I have spent 5 months missing you.

I think it's about time I go home and get to kiss you and cuddle you and eat with you, go to the cinema, go for drives, have tea, have our morning bed time chats, make love, go for walks, miaow....

Take me home, Al. xxx

3 Years Together

I love you.

Over the last 3 years; 36 months; 1'096 days; 26'304 hours; 1'578'240 minutes; 94'694'400 seconds; and 110'476'800 heartbeats you have been my best friend and soul-mate.

I never want to lose you.

Congratulations to us on 3 wonderful years.

Xxx

The Good Wife’s Guide.

Extract from Housekeeping Monthly, 1955.

• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember his topics of conversation are more important that yours.
• Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you.  Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
  Don’t complain if he’s late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember he is the master of the house and as such will always excercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
• A good wife always knows her place.

I want to print this out and frame it and hang it in our kitchen while you make me dinner :) xxx

This cute little girl cheers me up when i'm lonely xxx

I MISS EWE

I'm liking my new body shape and I very much look forward to you getting to know it! VERY looking forward to it! xx

I've spent all day thinking about how we began and in the fashion of an English teacher I was noting each moment and the symbolism in it and I realise now, and believe, with great conviction, it was fate and we are meant to be.

100% soulmates xxxxxx

I love you

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The patron saint of geeks?

A time when I was Alan-less and therefore only half a real person!
Also I had a dodgy fringe that I cut myself and  I look like I need a decent meal!
I love you xxxx
(P.s This is what virgin Emily looks like)

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You're still adored.

It's 04:18. I'm miserable, we're fighting and I haven't heard from you all night and I've spent the last 2 hours ringing your phone. No answer. I'm so scared something has happened to you.
This will be the most miserable night. I have to be up  in 3 hours but I won't sleep.
I want you here. I need you to tell me  it'll be ok and kiss me and hug me.
I feel so sick and scared and empty and alone and horrible.

I like all those things too.

And I like how we know each other so well. We each other's little idiosyncrasies. We know when the other is upset or annoyed.

I like how we can really be ourselves around each other.

I love you.

Xx

I love us!

I love our kisses, the quick ones, the sexy ones, the long passionate ones after sex, the sad ones when we're clinging on knowing there's a goodbye!

I love our embraces, safe in your arms, lying in bed, or sitting in our armchair or just out for a walk or when I greet you at the door in grans.

I love our chats, our brief "I'll be at yours in a minute", our long skype ones, our driving home in the dark chats about life and people we know, our planning, our revealing of secrets, even our horrible upsetting fights where we talk endlessly for hours trying to fix it-and always do! It's because we talk that we do.

I love our mutual friends, our ability to be independent too and have our own lives and universities. I love how we still mash it all together though and include eachother because we wouldn't want the other not to be a part of it!

I love our families, how we mold perfectly into each others, how they get along individually, how we interact with them.

I love how we can talk about babies and houses and commitment with not a flinch nor a bat of an eyelid or a fear KNOWING that it won't be premature and that when it all happens in good time, it will be spectacular.

I love that we trust. I trust you to always love me and listen to me and try to understand where I come from. I love that when I get upset and angry at you, you don't swat me away, you listen and even in your silence, I know you're going to accept what I am upset about and you will try! And I love that I will always apologise when i'm wrong and I will always try for you too! Try to understand, try to appreciate and try to accept even if it perplexed me!

I love that we have all this promise! We have years to go and places to see, dreams to attempt! Pain to feel, bad times to overcome.

Most of all I love that it's you. That we met in the ugliest of boring suburbia. That I found you when my heart was broken and you fixed me and made me stronger. You made me, me. And you continue to do it! I am most definitely myself with you! And you are yourself with me.
No secrets, just honest to god love and  friendship that would baffle even the greatest minds and authors to translate into art! xxxxxxx

I'm missing you too.

I'll call you later.

Love,

Al. Xxx

Oh where oh where will we be going in June 2013 :D

Can't wait xxxx

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"Rory was stubbornly devoted to Amy. Perhaps the greatest testament to this was his willingness to guard Amy in the Pandorica for almost two thousand years."

Two thousand years!! See 7 months isn't as bad as we think. Although I would wait by your side for 2 thousand years if I had to. xx

ALSO THIS IS REFERRING TO DOCTOR WHO! We're having a Who-athon when i'm back :D

One of my favourites off the new album. I hope you like it:)

The rain has feet to pitter patter,
So Ardmore storms they just don't matter...

This is maybe a few styes for our future home? I can't wait to live with you! I love you xxx

Thought you might enjoy this

Ok, so if you won't allow the babies to be dressed like food, i'm dressing our baby in this! xxxx

Remind me to show you our 'heart' shaped balloons tomorrow too!

I love you and miss you every day. Xx

This makes me happy!!I can't wait to be ON MY WAY home to your gorgeous arms to get my kisses xxx
I love you xxx

I have spent the day recovering from a very successful night out of drink and dance and 5am wanderings home, barefoot!! I love that, it's exactly what we should be doing in our twenties!

Thinking of this makes me think of life with you! I've never ever been so confident and happy and sure of myself than with you! 

Fears I used to have about having as many friends as possible and making a great impression, just seem ridiculous. Fears I had about not succeeding or doing amazing things, seem silly.

With you by my side I feel safe, that you will encourage me, support me and love me no matter what!

I will always do the same for you!

I wish you were here with me now, kissing me, cuddling me, making love to me. Having tea and kit kats with me!

I miss you handsome! I will love you forever though, so this distance is bareable! 

xxxxxxx

I know we will. Because we inspire each other to be great minds. Xx

We'll be more than fine!!
Can't wait to live with you!

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Dark Knight Rises was AMAZEBALLS!!! Wish I could have seen it with you.

P.S: We'll be fine. I know it.

The storms here are incredible and terrifying! Come cuddle me and we can watch the lightning flash and hear the thunder boom and we can make love to it for hours and fall asleep, happy and comfortable in eachothers arms, safe! xxxx

I want you to kiss me! I miss your lips! xxxx

I had a great time on my trip but now that I'm back I miss you more. I'm just going to occupy myself with as many things as I can to help myself through. I love you. X

I'm annoyed at you right now because I miss you so much and I haven't heard from you in 5 days. (I know it's irrational) I don't ever want to be long distance again! You promised that one day we'll travel together and live together! I want that soon! Email me or text me or something. I miss my best friend and my love xxxxxx

I read back on all our facebook messages from the very beginning and it's really sweet how we spoke to each other. There's also that video we sent to Natalie where we're obviously nervous and waiting to kiss again, the sexual tension :)

It's great to see how far we've come. Sometimes it's sad though, I want us to always talk to each other like that. I would hate to look back on our emails a year from now and realise that we don't talk in the excited, anticipating, head over heels manner as what I read last night.

I love you and miss you. I'm getting really sick of long distance Al. When you've done your Uni work placement in 3rd year I don't want to be apart anymore. After that I want to be with you wherever you go! I think we'll have done enough alone time by then! xxx

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Listening to this on repeat. I love you handsome! It's thunder and lightening here, would love to cuddle up in my bed and watch a movie and eat dumplings! xxx

http://www.buzzfeed.com/expresident/pictures-that-will-restore-your-faith-in-humanity

This made me smile (and cry a little in a good way). The last one will most definitely be our baby!! xxx

I'm missing you. xxx

This made me laugh when I was missing you! Hope you're having a great time in Leblana! Ignore what Ben Noonan says about any girls! I love you xxxx

Alan is now off on his adventure Interrailing around Europe!! Be safe and have an amazing time! I will be thinking of you everyday!

Take lots of cool Lomo photos and don't get lured into sexy sleazy laps of too loving ladies! (ah assonance and alliteration) 

Love you mon paon, my love, handsome, sexy, Al.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Modern Family is on:)

How could we not smile at this delighted little guy!! This video must be watched to cheer us up on our bus journey up to Dublin. 

Had such a lovely day in Long Strand yesterday with Al. After we went to see his Grandad in Roscarbery. We saw the sprigging school and nearly killed ourselves being Romantic by the well. It really made me feel more relaxed, a chance to chill out in the sun with Alan and not be sad or anxious. Perfect!

It's a must to stop for fish and chips after the beach, so we went to the Lantern in Enniskeen.....I wasn't a fan i'd have given them 4/10 but Al being a lover of all things Chip, enjoyed them.

In bed right now with Al and we're doing our favourite snuggle routine of getting into bed with popcorn and watching the new episode of Modern Family. We are not allowed watch it on our own!!
Bliss xxx

Last Week Together

So it's our last week together before Emily heads off. But there's no need to be too sad- we're embarking upon exciting adventures: Emily in China and me around Europe. On top off that we've an exciting week ahead off us which is sure to be food and fun filled!
So let's stay happy...

NEW HAIRCUTS!!

Had the loveliest day. Spoilt Rotten by my favourite man in the whole world. Cupcakes, presents, wagamamas!! Encounters with interesting people and now for bed and tea!! A girl can only dream of a life like this! xx Thank you my love xx

Blog created.

T-10 days till E-Day.

I hope she likes her pressies.

Now I'm going to have some alone time with the blog before Em gets her hands on it.